Quality vs. Quantity [Parental Discretion is Advised]

SOUNDTRACK: Jodeci --- Freek'n You


--Parental Discretion is Advised--

Aight we all adults I'm just trying to look out for the conservative bunch that read my blog but now I'm going to be reckless wit my mouth as usual. Ok so as the title states this discussion is about Quantity vs. Quality. And we are talking about sex here nothing else not your shoe game not your paper game NOT your collected empty alcohol bottles that sit in your window just sex.

The question of Q vs. Q is brought up often in conversations that deal with sexual intercourse and your personal number. That brings up another topic…..your number [but we'll talk about that later on]...SOOO Quantity by definition is 1. an indefinite amount or number 2. the aspect in which a thing is measurable in terms of greater, less, or equal or of increasing or decreasing magnitude. SO for the dumb people out there that means a big number. And Quality is 1. a degree of excellence. Again for the dumb people out there that means the best of ____. [whatever is in question] in this conversation its sex.

So sex hmmm where to start….its been called many things; sex, sexual intercourse, trim [for the ol' skool black folks], tapping that ass, f**kin, freakin, Knockin Da boots [shouts to H-Town], u wanna Do It ? (wink wink)… and so on and so forth I personally like the term Smashin. Nah mean you see someone that’s fly u be like look you cute and I know I'm sexy...I'm just trying to smash then you can go back to whatever you was doing before lol.

So yea... niggas be acting like they cool cause they freak a lot of girls ha!! not even. If you smash a long list of girls... "it don’t even a matter though [alpha psi]"….. cause if they not working it out BLAH….its just an additional number. Since number keeps coming up I feel I have to make a comment about the idea of the N word…. Your number 1. should NOT be excessive 2. it should NOT be filled with ugly girls and/or boys 3. it should NOT be brought up in every conversation you have 4. it should NOT make you any more of a man/woman [side note: for those of you who think it does…your sadly mistaken] etc etc…back to the topic

For those that have no idea what I'm talking about because you have either 1. chosen to live a celibate life or 2. are still virgins because [enter personal belief here]. That’s cool but what I'm bout to say will not pertain to you….

You know some of yall have sexual relationships with your significant others and that’s cool. Some of yall look for emotional stability within your sexual partners . Some f**k just because. Some think if they have sex with some one they gonna end up getting in/staying in/or fixing a relationship. Some people have sex by mistake and/or on purpose because their friendships cross boundaries and limits into the all to familiar term known as F.W.B. [friends with benefits]. Either way we should all know the difference. Good long-lasting/leg shaking/ body rocking/ important/useful/ feen ending/ cant wait another day to go at it again/ no drama/ no strings attached/ don’t catch feelings sex VS. wasteful/boring/ watching a football game and texting/ thinking about another person/ cant wait to leave and/or kick the other person out/ wasting your precious time cause you could have been doing something else that’s more fun and productive sex. Like one of my beloveds said, " it doesn’t matter how many you have if its not good . U could have 70,000,000 partners but if its not good your just wasting your vagina." lmao she's so educated in the matter to be batting for the good/innocent side.

My opinion is…. look my number isn't 1 and its not 20 either. I don’t go around whorin myself out nor do I go around saying and/or acting like I'm innocent. And I don’t believe in people that make a big deal of having their number be only 1. I just want to go up to them and shout HEY YOUR NOT ANY BETTER THAN ME FOOL!! So what if you like sex. As long as you pay attention and are responsible about your actions have ALL the sex you want!!! [RAP IT UP] Everyone needs to mind their business and keep they mouths shut STOP TALKING ABOUT OTHER PPLS SEX LIFES. Stop commenting on things you think you could have seen. Or things you could possibly know. And Quality blah!!! Your number could be one and the quality of your sex life could be horrible so there that goes.

So where does that leave us? Where has our conversation gone? What conclusion have we arrived at? ---- exactly ----A never ending cycle. Its all based on opinion, personal morals and principles. But nah mean don’t get it twisted I'll call outta hoe in a hot minute [yea u too man whores] its whatever

I end with a quote…." no man wants to start off as a good guy and cross over to the bad side" --BBJ